Tips for Planning a Romantic Getaway Weekend

When planning a romantic getaway, think about what experiences have proven most memorable for you and your beloved – that couples massage in Kauai? A bottle of Pinot Noir from that little vineyard you discovered? A romantic dinner watching the sunset? – and arrange a trip that plays on these strengths. You’re sure to get kissed.


Always ask about romance or honeymoon packages
This may seem obvious, but not everyone thinks to do it. These packages can involve anything from a bottle of champagne to a box of fine chocolates to a rose-petal turndown. Each hotel or resort will have its own signature touches of romance, so see what they can provide, then add something personal, like a letter.


Decide early on if it’s a surprise or not
If it’s a surprise trip, you must make sure that they have the proper attire. Pack for them, or ask a friend or sibling for help if you are unsure. Your partner might need eveningwear if you’ve booked a glam evening of theater, or just their favorite jeans and boots if the plan is a coast-side horseback ride.


Savor the anticipation together
If the trip is NOT a surprise, try extending the pleasure it gives you by anticipating it. You can do this with a nice piece of luggage bought especially for the romantic getaway, or with maps and travel guides of your destination.


Prepare, prepare, prepare
Yes, spontaneity is romantic. But spontaneity can also lead to a miserable lunch at a drive-through burger place. It’s romantic to think ahead, and it’s romantic to make reservations. Reservations for what? It doesn’t matter. The theater, a massage, a gourmet dinner: it’s nice to know these things have been arranged in advance.


Pack for pampering
Include a few special romantic items when you pack. Candles will create a beautiful atmosphere, and massage oil will encourage relaxation. Pamper each other all evening.


Book a room with a whirlpool tub
Bathing each other is a time-honored ritual of romance. Book a room with a spa tub and enjoy a nice long soak together.    


Stop along the way
Perhaps it will be a vineyard, perhaps it will be that lingerie boutique en route. Don’t go anywhere without a secret romantic agenda.


Book time at a spa
A destination spa is one of the most relaxing places a couple can spend time together. It is serene, peaceful, and utterly romantic. Consider Sedona’s Mii Amo, the world’s top destination spa according to “Travel + Leisure,” or Santa Fe’s Ten Thousand Waves, a luxury mountain spa resort in the style of a Japanese establishment.


Stay at a bed and breakfast
These family inns are known for their charming, romantic ambiance.


Capture the memories
Bring a camera and ask other guests to take a picture of both of you. If you’re handy with a color printer, it will make a romantic card later.


The sunset
Holding hands, watching the sun go down, your mind contemplates the rhythms of our days, and the loved ones who will be there each day to come. As day turns into night, you behold the beauty wordlessly, watching twilight come across the land and sea. In San Francisco, the place to view sunsets is from inside the dining room of the ocean-side Cliff House, with the added bonus of seals frolicking below.  In the L.A. area, head for the Santa Monica Pier. Follow the pier away from the shore and into the sunset, surrounded by a happy, lively carnival of fun.