How To Afford A Vacation: Cancel Christmas
Laura recently shared 5 Little Ways To Save Money for Vacations. Her suggestions were sensible, savvy and financially sound, and called for little to no disruption in your day to day life.
I’d like to offer a suggestion that’s a little more extreme.
Cancel Christmas.
Seriously.
Now before you start throwing the Scrooge label around, hear me out.
I’ve been thinking recently about how much I want to take my kids on a great vacation. I travel quite a bit on my own, and I’ve noticed that it’s much more affordable to travel solo than it is in a group. Even when I go places with just my husband, the sticker shock of two airplane tickets and two full sized meals (as opposed to one street vendor hot dog) never ceases to amaze me. (Plus, when you’re traveling with your husband, you can’t save money by splitting a hotel room with 3 of your closest friends.)
I can easily scratch the heck out of my travel itch for under $400 – when I’m traveling alone.
But I’ve been wondering, where can I come up with the well over $400 needed for a great vacation for a family of four?
Obviously, one of the first things I could do to save money is stop traveling alone. And to that I say, Ba Humbug! I’m a travel writer, for Pete’s sake! I pretty much have to take regular trips or I’ll lose my job! Nobody wants that!
My next idea was to stop buying groceries. But then I considered the enormous hassle of dealing with Child Protective Services and quickly scrapped that plan.
And then came my brilliant idea to cancel Christmas.
Kind of.
I have two children and a husband and me. Between the four of us, we easily rack up well over a thousand dollars in gift receipts for the holiday season. And what do we have to show for it? A frenzied 15 minutes of paper shredding, garbage bags full of said shredded paper, and boxes full of toys that will be all but forgotten about in less than a month.
Oh, and new underwear for everyone.
While all of that is fantastic, the idea of providing my kids with a week full of new memories and adventures in lieu of battery operated gizmos is more than appealing.
The next question, of course, is how do I sell this idea to my family?
1. Give everyone a say on where you’ll go on vacation. I’m keeping in mind that taking a vacation is replacing tangible, personalized gifts. The only way this will work is if everyone feels like this is a special event for them.
2. Take the vacation over the Christmas break. Swapping presents for travel is a lot harder for kids to swallow if they’re sitting around on Christmas morning going “just think how much fun we’ll have in February!” Worse still is sitting around on Christmas morning saying “but remember what a GREAT time you had in October?” This is especially true if your children are under the age of, say, 30 and their mindsets are still very much of the “what have you done for me lately” variety.
3. Savor gifts from Grandma. I’m not the only one who gives my kids presents at Christmas time. (See also: why the toys I buy for them are quickly forgotten) If you’re not going to be waking up in a kid friendly hotel on Christmas morning, consider waking up at Grandma’s. If that’s not option, save all the gifts that get mailed to the kids for one massive unwrapping party, thereby saving the holiday spirit!
I have to admit, my plan is genius.
Now it’s just a matter of convincing the 4 year old and 9 year old…
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Also? I don’t think I’ve ever been called “sensible” before!
Interesting tips, I think I will apply one or two of those !
Our best holidays have been spent on get-away vacations over Christmas break.
It’s the convincing the 4 and 9 year old that is the snag in the otherwise extremely practical plan.
I think this would be hard to sell to younger kids, but I think it makes a lot of sense when the kids are older. While it’s thoughtful to swap gifts, sometimes it doesn’t make sense, especially if there is nothing in participar they want. When my brother and I were in our teens, we were always asking for gift cards. One holiday we said, “Wait….I just spent $25 on a Best Buy gift card for you, and you just spent $25 on a Barnes and Noble gift card for me….do we really need that stuff? Maybe we should have just not spent anything and both saved our $25.” We just both realized that sometimes you don’t have to buy each other stuff, especially if that money is better spent elsewhere — and for me, that means for travel!
With younger kids, I think if you pitch it that the Christmas present is a fun family vacation that the kids get to help decide the details for, it would be much easier than to just say, “No presents this year1″
It would be interesting to hear how popular things like Kris Kringles are to help cut costs down!
wow, that’s a very interesting (cough) approach
it would HAVE to be the week of christmas… being at school with friends and they say “what did you get for christmas”… and having noting to say is a bummer… but if you can say “I got a trip to Florida!” then touche’ that’s beats the shiny robot dog.
I think that is a great idea. Maybe throwing in that the children get to pick one souvenir of their choice that costs up to a certain amount could help. I do feel like memories are worth more than things, and a great vacation lasts a lifetime.
Have you started buying your Christmas gifts yet? I found this survey at http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=9E5nIWySY1T3V41Uzt5hhQ_3d_3d and am curious what other people’s plans are!
We booked our Christmas vacation to the Riviera Maya yesterday. We have a split family, so the girls get twice as many gifts and it gets a bit crazy.. So this year we thought instead of spending the thousands of dollars on gifts that will sit in their rooms until next Christmas, we would put that money together and go on a vacation.. NOW, Question is.. How can I surprise them Christmas morning with this news.. as it’s a surprise for them! We purchased them both new really cute carry on suitcases and some new bathing suits.. Just need more help on the surprise part of it!
Thanks everyone!